Laozi: 'When you let go of what you are, you become what you might be'
When fascism came to America it came clutching a bible and waving the flag. On January 20, 2025.
Israel in the present time is a state engaging in state terrorism against the Palestinian population of Gaza. The Zionist genocide of Palestinians is ungodly, un-Christian, and in every way horrific evil.
For Evangelical Christians, Christian Nationalists and MAGA who apparently know nothing of Jesus of Nazareth's position on wealth: Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.
"All worldly pursuits have but one unavoidable and inevitable end, which is sorrow; acquisitions end in dispersion; buildings in destruction; meetings in separation; births in death. Knowing this, one should, from the very first, renounce acquisitions and storing-up, and building, and meeting; and, faithful to the commands of an eminent Guru, set about realizing the Truth. That alone is the best of religious observances. Milarepa
"What you are is what you have been. What you’ll be is what you do now. The Buddha
"Irrigators channel waters; fletchers straighten arrows; carpenters bend wood; the wise master themselves. The Buddha
"An idea that is developed and put into action is more important than an idea that exists only as an idea." The Buddha
“Owing to ignorance of the rope the rope appears to be a snake; owing to ignorance of the Self the transient state arises of the individualized, limited, phenomenal aspect of the Self.” Guru Nanak
Rational Nation USA again welcomes Eva Benoit with another insightful post that offers excellent advice on dealing with life's ever increasing stress and how success can still be achieved with the right attitude and self confidence.
Confidence,
Goals, and “Best Life” Energy: Practical Moves You Can Make Today
Confidence is the belief that you can
handle what’s next, and goal achievement is the habit of showing up even when
motivation wobbles. This article is about people—regular humans with busy
days—who want to feel more capable, take action, and build a life that actually
feels like theirs. You don’t need a personality transplant or a perfect plan;
you need a few repeatable steps that create momentum.
A fast overview you can use
immediately
Confidence grows from evidence, not pep
talks. Pick one small goal, define the next action so clearly it’s hard to
misunderstand, and do it even if you feel awkward. Track what you did (not just what you
intended), and build on it. When you stumble, treat it like data—not a verdict.
The momentum map
Use this to translate “I want to live my
best life” into something you can actually do before lunch.
When “best life” means
building something of your own
Sometimes confidence isn’t just
personal—it’s practical. Starting your dream business is a bold way to turn
skills, ideas, and values into something real, but it’s also a stack of
unglamorous steps: choosing an offer, understanding who it helps, testing demand,
setting a simple plan, and showing up consistently enough to learn what works.
You’ll need patience for the messy middle, and the willingness to iterate
instead of treating the first version as final. It helps to keep your launch
focused: one clear service or product, one audience, one main channel to reach
them, and one measurable goal for the first month. And if you want fewer moving
parts early on, an all-in-one platform like ZenBusiness can support key basics such as
forming an LLC, handling compliance, building a website, or organizing
finances.
Pick a “keystone goal” (and
shrink it until it’s runnable)
Most people fail at goals because the
goal is too big for today. Try this:
- Choose one keystone goal that would make other
things easier (sleep, fitness, savings, learning,
business, relationships).
- Write the 2-week version of it (short enough to feel real).
- Shrink the next action until it’s under 10 minutes.
Example: “Get fit” → “Move 4 days this
week” → “Put on shoes and walk to the corner.”
It sounds almost silly—until it works.
A helpful resource for
goal-setting that won’t yell at you
If you want a structured way to set
goals—and a library of practical exercises—check out Greater Good in
Action. It includes short, research-informed activities you can try
in real life, including exercises related to purpose, gratitude, connection,
and resilience. The tone is grounded, and the practices are broken into doable
steps rather than vague inspiration. You can browse by topic and test one
exercise at a time until you find what actually fits your personality.
FAQ
How do I build confidence if I have
low self-esteem?
Start with actions so small you can complete them
consistently. Confidence grows from repeated proof, and small wins are the
safest place to begin.
What if I don’t know what my goals
should be?
Track what you repeatedly complain about or wish you
had more of (energy, money, time, connection). Pick one and run a two-week
experiment.
How do I stay motivated long-term?
Don’t rely on motivation. Rely on design: calendar
blocks, environment cues, and a “minimum viable version” of your habit for hard
days.
Is it okay to have multiple goals at
once?
Yes—but prioritize one main goal and keep the others
in maintenance mode so you don’t dilute your effort.
Conclusion
Living your best life is less about
constant happiness and more about consistent alignment: doing things that match
your values and goals. Confidence is built through tiny acts of follow-through,
not perfect feelings. Choose one small action today, record it, and repeat
tomorrow. Momentum is ordinary—until it isn’t.
"Eva Benoit is a life, career, and wellness coach specializing in helping professionals reduce stress, find balance, and create sustainable well-being."
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